Monday, July 17, 2006
Make a Difference...
My husband uses this illustration to talk about caring for children in nearly every seminar that he presents. The original version of the starfish story appeared in The Star Thrower, a collection of essays by the naturalist and writer Loren Eiseley that appeared in 1978, a year after Eiseley’s death. It goes something like this...
That should be the reason to care for children... to make a difference to even one child is one of life's greatest experiences.
My husband uses this illustration to talk about caring for children in nearly every seminar that he presents. The original version of the starfish story appeared in The Star Thrower, a collection of essays by the naturalist and writer Loren Eiseley that appeared in 1978, a year after Eiseley’s death. It goes something like this...
Once upon a time there was a old man who used to go to the ocean for peace and quiet, and for inspiration to do his writing. In the morning, he usually walked on the beach before he began his work.
One day as he was walking along the shore, he saw a human figure moving like a dancer, bending, then wading into the waves, arms extended. It pleased him that someone would dance to the beauty of the day and the rhythm of the waves. As he got closer, he saw that it was a young girl. The girl wasn't dancing, but instead she was reaching down to the sand, picking up something, and throwing it gently into the ocean.
He called out, "Good morning! What are you doing?"
The girl paused and replied, "Throwing starfish in the ocean."
"I guess I should have asked, why are you throwing starfish in the ocean?"
"The sun is up and the tide is going out. If I don't throw them in, they'll be stranded on the beach and die."
"But don't you realize that there are thousands of miles of beach and starfish all along the way. You can't possibly make a difference!"
The girl listened and considered. Then she bent down, picked up another starfish and threw it into the sea. She watched a wave lift it high, and then it sank into the life-giving water.
"It made a difference for that one,” she said.
That should be the reason to care for children... to make a difference to even one child is one of life's greatest experiences.
// posted by Tammy Wachter @ 6:48 PM 
